4 Worst Reasons For Not Having a Will and Power of Attorney
Monday, October 29th, 2007For some reason, I find getting my friends to actually act and get a will to be one of the toughest sells I try to make. Maybe it’s me and I’m just not a terribly persuasive person. People I talk to about this agree that having a will is a great idea and it’s something they should do. Getting them to do it is something else altogether.
Whenever I mention having a will to friends, I also tell them it’s important to have a power of attorney. A power of attorney is a legal document that allows someone to act on your behalf. You can make the powers conferred on this person as broad or narrow as you like.
A power of attorney is not scary, but not having one is. If you cannot act on your own behalf for any reason (commonly, the reason is medical), your bills still need to be paid. You need a trusted person to take care of things if you can’t.
Here are the 4 bad reasons for not having a will and power of attorney.
“I don’t want to focus on death.”
You know what, neither do I, but we’re all going to die. When you do, you need to know your loved ones and your affairs are taken care of. It’s not really that painful an exercise. Plus, once it’s done, you can stop ‘focusing on death’ unless you have a major change to your life (e.g. birth of a child).
“I don’t have much in the way of assets anyway.”
Maybe not, but you have an opinion on how your money is spent before you die. You should also have an opinion on where it goes afterward.
“I don’t have kids. If I die, my wealth will all go to my spouse by default.”
Absolutely incorrect in many cases. In many states, if you’re survived by a spouse and your parent(s), they share your property equally. You may want your spouse to get everything, but that might not be the case. Note that any assets that are Joint Tenant With Right of Survivorship (JTWRS) do automatically go to the other person. But I’ll bet you have plenty of assets not in that category.
“It’s too expensive.”
It’s really not. A basic will drawn up by an attorney (not a piece of software) might cost between $200-$300. I don’t think that’s too expensive to make sure your wishes are fulfilled when you die.
So getting a will is not hard, not expensive, yet it’s valuable both practically and for piece of mind. You really have no good excuse for not having one. As for us, we have to get ours updated since we have a new child. I’m waiting for the SSN to come in the mail before we go, though.







